This document outlines the agreed-upon limits, boundaries, and interests between Scarlet and Sir. It serves as a vital communication tool to enhance the dynamic, ensuring mutual respect, safety, and consent.
Participant Details:
Submissive’s Name: Scarlet Rose
Dominant’s Name: Sir
Purpose:
The purpose of this document is to explicitly define the boundaries of our BDSM activities and to foster an environment of trust and safety, ensuring a fulfilling and consensual experience for both participants.
Safe Signal Approach:
Verbal Signal: Instead of a traditional safe word, the submissive will verbally beg for mercy. The decision to relent and the extent to which limits are pushed are at the discretion of Sir, who is entrusted with the knowledge of the Submissive's limits and their capacity for endurance.
Non-verbal Signal: In situations where the submissive is unable to speak, a specific non-verbal cue will be used. This signal will be agreed upon in advance and will vary depending on the nature of the activity being engaged in. The agreed signals are designed to ensure the safety and comfort of the submissive while maintaining the integrity of the scene.
Consent and Withdrawal of Consent:
Consent is dynamic and can be withdrawn at any time using the established safe words or signals. Both parties commit to respecting the cessation or modification of activities upon such cues.
Boundaries and Limits:
Physical Boundaries:
Encourage positive physical touch during face-to-face greetings.
Use positive physical touch as public rewards.
Physical pain from hitting or slapping is acceptable within agreed intensity levels.
Intellectual Boundaries:
Absolute prohibition against degrading the Submissive's intellect.
Emotional Boundaries:
Employ words of affirmation as rewards to support and build emotional connection.
Sexual Boundaries:
Prohibit fire, scat, and the creation of permanent marks or deliberate bloodshed.
Disallow public nudity and visible penetration.
Sanitized objects only for vaginal insertion.
Ensure the submissive is allowed to urinate post-sex to prevent UTIs.
Ass play will require explicit prior consent before commencement; there will be no CNC (Consensual Non-Consent) elements involved in ass play activities.
Time Boundaries:
This dynamic is recognized as a 24/7 commitment, ongoing unless there is a need for the submissive to attend to real-life or family matters. In such instances, the dynamic may be paused to allow the submissive to manage these responsibilities effectively.
Other Boundaries:
No consumption of non-food items or non-human food.
Prohibit the use of location tracking on the submissive.
Kinks and Fetishes:
Not Interested or Prohibited:
List of prohibited activities includes but is not limited to: Abasiophilia, Acrotomophilia, Bestiality, Blood Play, Branding, Crush Fetish, Fire Play, Knife Play, Necrophilia, and all others as detailed previously.
Interested in Exploring:
Autofellatio, Bondage, Collaring, Consensual Non-Consent, Corsetry, Edge Play (no blood), and others as detailed previously.
Health and Safety:
Both participants commit to maintaining health and safety by:
Regular discussions on physical and emotional health.
Using safe, clean, and well-maintained equipment.
Monitoring for distress and stopping activities if needed.
Annual Service Notation:
The submissive shall add a labia piercing annually as a symbolic notation of each year of dedicated service within this dynamic.
Procedure:
The piercing shall be performed by a professional piercer experienced in genital piercings.
The submissive shall ensure the piercing is completed within one month of the anniversary date of the commencement of their service.
The submissive shall provide proof of the piercing in the form of a photograph to be shared with the Dominant.
Maintenance:
The submissive shall maintain the piercing in a clean and sanitary condition.
Any complications or issues arising from the piercing shall be promptly addressed and reported to the Dominant.
Modification or Removal:
The piercing may only be modified or removed with the explicit consent of the Dominant.
Any modification or removal shall be documented and shared with the Dominant.
Acknowledgement:
The submissive acknowledges that the addition of the labia piercing is a voluntary act, symbolizing their commitment and dedication to the Dominant in this dynamic.
Privacy and Discretion:
Review and Modification:
This document is subject to periodic review and can be modified with mutual consent, ensuring it remains relevant and reflective of our evolving dynamic.
Signatures:
By signing below, both Scarlet and Sir affirm their understanding, agreement, and commitment to the terms outlined herein.
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Submissive’s Signature:
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Dominant’s Signature:
Date: January 25, 2024
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